How it works.

Ten dates. One activity.
Only mutual matches.

  1. Book your seat.

    Pick an evening and your side. Every evening is balanced: ten and ten.

  2. Meet your host.

    Arrive, get a name tag, and the host walks everyone through the evening. No experience needed.

  3. Make, talk, switch.

    Each round, you and your date make one thing together, then eat it and talk. When the bell rings, you switch.

  4. Choose who you’d like to see again.

    After the evening, you get a private link. Tick everyone you’d like to see again.

  5. It’s mutual.

    When two people tick each other, both get the contact details the other chose to share. Nobody else sees anything.

The format

Everyone meets everyone.

One side stays seated. The other moves one seat after every round. After ten rounds, every pair has met exactly once, and every pair has made every dish.

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Moves one seat

Round 1 of 10Pan con tomate

Why we don’t match on paper.

Whether two specific people click is hard to predict from profiles in advance.1 So you meet everyone on the other side, and decide yourself.

The Box

The evening is the prize.

Think of it as a dinner out with ten conversations. The dishes are guaranteed, like the figures in a blind box. A match is the secret one: not guaranteed, always possible.

Series 1

Tapas Relay

activity-based dating

  1. 1 Pan con tomate 100%
  2. 2 Gilda 100%
  3. 3 Gazpacho shot 100%
  4. 4 Pepper roll 100%
  5. 5 Tortilla pintxo 100%
  6. 6 Mackerel toast 100%
  7. 7 Ensaladilla 100%
  8. 8 Avocado & prawn 100%
  9. 9 Manchego & fig 100%
  10. 10 Pan con chocolate 100%

  11. The secret seat

    1 in 8 per date

    The chance a date is mutual.2

Over ten dates, about 6 in 10 guests leave with at least one mutual match.3

Optional pairing

  • Cava
  • Fino sherry
  • Albariño
  • Rioja
  • Pedro Ximénez

Open the Box

After the evening

What happens next.

  1. The next morning

    Your private link to choose who you’d like to see again. It’s open for 48 hours.

  2. When choosing closes

    Mutual matches get each other’s chosen contact details by email. Everyone else hears that there was no match this time.

  3. After 7 days

    Your allergy details are deleted.

  4. After 3 months

    Your booking details are deleted, unless you asked us to keep your profile for future evenings.

Questions.

Do I need to know how to cook?

No. There’s no cooking at the table. Everything is prepped, and you assemble each tapa together in about four minutes.

Who comes?

Singles in the age range shown for each evening. Mixed evenings have ten women and ten men.

Can I come with a friend?

Yes, book separately. You’ll be in the same room, and you can compare notes afterwards.

How long does it take?

Ten rounds take just under two hours, plus a welcome and a close. Each evening shows its start and end time.

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