Code of conduct

Last updated 31 October 2026

Our evenings work because everyone at the table can relax. These rules apply to every guest, every evening, and to anything that follows from it.

  • Treat every date the way you’d like to be treated, including the ones that don’t click. Ten minutes is short; make it pleasant.
  • No comments about someone’s body, background, religion, orientation or appearance that you wouldn’t make to a colleague.
  • A “no” on the picks is private. Never ask someone why they didn’t tick you.
  • No touching beyond a handshake, unless the other person clearly welcomes it.
  • Don’t ask for or push contact details during the evening. That’s what the mutual match is for.
  • Don’t follow, message or look up someone who didn’t match with you.
  • No photos or videos of other guests without their permission.
  • What someone tells you at the table stays at the table.
  • The venue serves drinks and can refuse to serve anyone. Arrive sober, leave in a state you’d be happy to be seen in.
  • Book under your own name and age, on the side that applies to you.
  • One account of yourself: no fake profiles, no booking for someone else without telling us.

Tell the host on the evening, or email us afterwards at [contact email to be added]. We read every report and keep it confidential.

If someone breaks these rules, the host or the venue can ask them to leave without a refund, and we can decline their future bookings. Where the law is broken, we cooperate with the police.